Recently, girls have enormously made foolish of themselves all in the vein of trying to dry the pockets of men or guys in a situation they referred as ‘sharp girl style’. They have suddenly developed the phobia or mesmerism antics of usually asking a favour from a man over the internet even though such man has not met them or not even acquainted with them yet on the social media where they met.
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This situation of unusual demand of favour is now extra rampant and apprehensive. One gets to wonder the more on the reason why the same chain of misdemeanour is now roping almost all the necks of ladies in the latest world of internet media interaction. Even when a guy meets a new lady and expects her to be different from the rest, in many cases, such new lady turns out to be the worst of them all. This still compels the guy to wonder in obfuscation on why a unique status ‘of norms and demeanour is now pervaded amongst the ladies nowadays. Why are they all the same’, is now the question with the men.
Often as we now experience, many matured ladies now complain about the scarcity of husbands. Many at times, ladies would vocally expressed that there are men or boyfriends everywhere but, there are very few husbands amongst such men and boyfriends. Nonetheless, men are forced to enquire about the certitude of a husband. How could a lady realise a husband from the men or boyfriends whereas her initial approach to most men online has been either to demand for ‘airtime for her about to expire’ data subscription, or claim she is student and that she is broke and needs some money to sort some things out at school?
It is now worrisome currently about the tempo of online demands by girls or ladies. Imagine the man you just met online whom you never knew his past experience about ladies; whether pleasant or sour, the next thing you do, is to say: ‘hi, can u sub my data for me? My data is about to expire...’ What a deranged mindset! This is a guy you just met online through chat media and you never care to ask about his welfare; his job or his intentions. Many ladies have suddenly grown the credence of ‘get something out of one guy and move to the next available guy’. The conscience of cheating an innocent man with good intentions is no longer their care.
Many guys with good intentions have fallen victims to this new antics of ladies recently, and are subsequently bored with any of such demand by ladies either in the form of favour or otherwise. The most stupid of these antics is lack of remorse by the ladies. A man needs to be satisfying their desires all the time, even if it means to be sending airtime every two days or sending money for school activities every week, they do not care anymore. The man or guy dares not stop doing the ‘stylish favour’. If at any time the guy hesitates to send airtime or money as demanded, he will be cut off the ‘queue of ATM guys’ and be regarded as greedy man.
In a plain narration, here is the recent encounter between guys and gals online recently. The social chat media such as BBM, WhatsApp, Google Plus, Hangout, Imo, Facebook Chat, Badoo, Eskimi, Twitter DM, Tango, Instagram DM etc, have all made friends connection easier and accessible. One no longer needs to know the location or the direction of a friend before they are connected in chat and later mingle in reality. This trend of friends’ connection has led to the good, the bad and the ugly side of friendship or relationship.
Either the guy or gal do normally initiate a chat. There would be a response from the other end. They would get into a chat by introducing names and maybe locations. In the past, there used to be a mandatory introduction of ‘age, sex and location (ASL)’ in the era of Yahoo Messenger; but as the new chat media have been upgraded to expose the portrait angle and contact information, that has now made the ASL meaningless. Thus, as it is now, just names intro and location is enough for a new chat and continue. The chat may be going smoothly until the crack of demand is introduced by the gal. Imagine on a first day a girl meets a guy online and starts demanding for a stylish favour of airtime or cash, how does she expect the guy to feel? Initially, this antics was normal to the men and they did not usually feel the insult. Many guys had complied in the past hoping that most of the girls were genuine. But recent experiences have proved the whole scenario otherwise.
From different recent experiences, it has been discovered that about 60 percent of the girls that claim to be student and are in the campuses, are liars. Many of them are not students. Even those who are already graduates still claim students so as to extort the guys. Again, many times when they claim that their data subscription is about to expire, the guys should never take this serious because even if you do not send her any airtime, you will still see her online for many days to come. All what they claim is nothing but to get something out of the guys at all cost. It is now a business avenue. Some extent of their foolishness have warranted some of them to be demanding for recharge cards in exchange of their nude pictures and videos. Even sometimes, this is a prank. Some lustful guys would send recharge but only for the gal to send other peoples nude pictures or videos gotten from certain uncensored porn sites to them.
Guys and men, it is high time you stop this dance of lust. The girl or lady who demands for airtime or money on the very first day of your chat, has no value for you. All of such ladies are ‘Runs gals’. Do not think she is only asking of such from you alone. She has up to 20 guys on queue as you. So, do not grow ‘dada’ over nothing as you may think she will love you after you comply with her. If you must send her airtime at all, it should not be the first day of your chat. If you must send her money at all, it must be from your heart after you must have seen her physically. Any girl you send money to without seeing her physically, sorry you are nothing to her but just another ‘human ATM’. If you wish to confirm this, try and find out, in her phone contact, she might have registered your phone number as ATM 7 or ATM 10!
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